“Men, how does your girl measure? When she bows on her knees, is it merely to bring you physical pleasure? Or does she use her stance to pray before an omniscient and omnipotent God on your behalf? Yes, she’s stunning, I mean absolutely beautiful on the outside. But is that it?

What happens when the colored contacts hit the nightstand, the weave hits the trashcan and the breast implants drop? What happens when you can’t buy her Gucci and diamonds any longer? Will she stand with you thru the rough seasons or will she walk away? What’s on the inside? What about her heart, her mind, her soul? Are your dreams her dreams? Is your family her family? Is your hope for tomorrow her prayer for today?

I’m merely asking the questions; only you can provide the answers. There are two many single sisters out here being overlooked every day due to vanity. It’s time to go deeper. Find a woman that’s desirable not only for her looks but for her worth, her principles, her standards and merit. Enough said.”

I wrote this post two years ago and the questions posed then still linger in my mind today. What are we sacrificing in pursuit of vanity? Time and time again, we choose the best looking and the highest earning instead of the biggest heart and the greatest potential.

As I continue on my journey of “My Best Selfie Yet”, value is a serious component of my selfie; not just how much others value me but how much I value others. “My Best Selfie Yet” begins and ends with a realization that everyone and everything has worth. Everyone is beneficial and everything has usefulness. Failure to accept these facts is vanity in action.